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Erotic Massage – The Best Kept Secret Fantasy

2011-11-11T13:19:00.001+01:00

Massages are designed to be relaxing for both the body and mind, and if the masseuse has skilled hands, a good massage can relieve quite a bit of stress.

That being said, unless you have your eyes closed the entire time, you're going to want to look at your masseuse. Even if the hands are skilled, if the masseuse's face is hideous, it'll trickle down to how you feel about those hands. Whether that is a right or wrong way of thinking is up to you, but some people do feel that way. So, you're better off finding a service with good-looking masseuses.

That brings us to the notion of an "erotic massage." What is that, exactly? Well, remember what I was talking about with the hideous masseuse? Would you want an erotic massage from an unattractive masseuse, no matter how well they performed their job? Probably not. Pretty hands on an ugly person turns those pretty hands into ugly ones.

An erotic massage goes a step further: The masseuse will massage you while naked, and will even use their own body to massage you, not just their hands. If that sounds fascinating, you can understand why not very many people would want an unattractive person giving them this type of massage.

Typically, the masseuse performing an erotic massage is female, so the clientele are predominately male; some females also enjoy the touch of a nude female masseuse, too. You can even get a couples' erotic massage from a nude masseuse. It can be a very calming yet intimate experience. These women have skilled hands too; only that their hands are attached to bodies you want to see naked, and faces that are gorgeous to look at. It's an all around aesthetically pleasing situation to be in. There is literally no downside to it.

Some guys have a secret fantasy of being sensually touched all over their bodies by a naked woman. A full-contact erotic massage is something that sounds interesting in theory, but since so few places actually offer this sort of service, it's one of those things that is talked about fondly but not actually experienced personally. Well, it can be experienced personally, and it's more entertaining than getting a firm rubdown from a manly-looking woman with strong arms. Sure, she'll work the kinks out, but will you ever tell your friends about it? I seriously doubt it.

Frankfurt Erotic Massage - Experience Some German Sensuality

2011-10-29T23:30:00.000+02:00

Frankfurt, Germany is the home of well over 700,000 people and is one of the largest cities in Germany. It's a tourist attraction and a global city, bringing people from around the world in to visit. With this kind of tourism going on, there's bound to be a few industries popping up that cater to tourists. One of these is rather peculiar to most, but the utility of said attraction is rather obvious: Nude massage. Yes, you read that correctly. There is nude massage available in Frankfurt, and for a fee, a woman will come to your home or hotel and give you a sensual, erotic massage in the buff. Frankfurt erotic massage is big business, and it's a business that stays busy.

These aren't the type of women you see at the local massage parlour. Oh no. These are German girls - hot German girls. The companies who hire these women to work for them don't look for average looking women; they want gorgeous, stunning women, because they know that's what clients are looking for. After all, if you're a guy in the mood for a relaxing massage, do you want an average or below average woman giving you one? You may stand still just to be nice, but it's just not the same. Frankfurt erotic massage companies know that beautiful women are the standard when it comes to working in the nude.

That being said, in a Frankfurt erotic massage, they don't just put oil in their hands and rub you down - unless that's all you want. They do have an option of massaging in lingerie instead of in the nude, but seriously, who would want that? If "nude" is an option, why settle for clothing, right? The nude massage includes body-to-body contact. It might be a bit expensive, but at least you can tell the wife or girlfriend that you didn't cheat. Technically, you didn't. All you did was get a massage!

If this seems like a lot to process, it can be a big shock to the system - especially if you're not used to something like that. However, Frankfurt erotic massage has proven to be very popular in Frankfurt for tourists and residents alike, who call the nude masseuses to their homes for one-on-one, two-on-one (the man's dream!), or couples massage. There might be a bit of apprehensiveness at first, but once the masseuse's soft skin hits yours, it really shouldn't be a problem.

London Erotic Massage – The Best Time You'll Ever Have

2011-10-27T23:23:00.000+02:00

Nude massages have always fascinated me. You know - the kind where a nude woman gives you a massage? If you've never had one of these before, by all means do it. Sure, it's relaxing, and the whole "aesthetically pleasing" thing goes right along with it. It's the kind of thing you just don't find at your every day, run of the mill massage parlour. I know when I go into a get a massage, the last thing I want to see is some surly woman with large man hands getting ready to go to town on me. That's just plain frightening. In other words, it's time to head to London to get an authentic London erotic massage.

There are establishments around the world that do this sort of erotic massage, and it is simply amazing. London, for example, has several of these fine places - and yes, I do mean fine. The London erotic massage parlours are one part relaxation, and one part titillation. For the travelling man, there's not much else better than that. Imagine this: Two lovely, shapely, gorgeous women are oiling you up and massaging you - with their naked bodies. Not kidding. Full contact! Great, isn't it? I've had it before, and if you've never actually experienced this, it's something you need to look into.

I didn't think I'd be up for something like this, but when I went to London and found out about these London erotic massage places, I just had to try it out. Every time I go to London I get one, and its money well spent. It's so relaxing and soothing, and they really work you over. These aren't surly women by any means, and there are no man hands anywhere in sight. Model quality women, completely naked, gently massaging me with their bodies. I mean, it's about as close as you can get to the real thing, if you know what I mean.

For the guys who might not be up for full contact massages from naked women (and boo to you if you're actually in this category), you can hire a London erotic massage expert to do her thing wearing skimpy lingerie. Think of this as the tamer version of the nude massage. She won't be doing her thing in full contact, but she will have her hands all over you, working out those kinks that just won't seem to go away by themselves. After seeing what these girls can do without clothes, I don't think I'd ask for a massage with clothes on - no matter how skimpy they are!

Paris Nude Massage – The Curiosity Is Natural

2011-10-25T22:54:00.001+02:00

Indulge me for a minute while I lay out a scenario: Imagine that you're in a hotel in Paris. Great already, right? It gets better. You get a knock at your hotel room door, and when you go to answer it, there's a beautiful woman standing there, asking if you ordered a massage. What are you going to say, no? That would be pretty stupid, wouldn't it? I'm not finished yet. Right before the massage, she strips down to nothing and asks if you're ready. It could be a reality, believe it or not. Paris nude massage is the real thing, and scenarios like this are playing out on a regular basis there.

Let's get this out of the way right now - what I'm talking about isn't an escort service. These women aren't hired for sex; however, what they do is very sensual and is about as close to sex as you'll get without actually having any. A Paris nude massage is very much like a regular one - only the masseuse is completely naked during the entire thing, and body-to-body contact is part of the session. Yes, that's correct. The masseuse will use her naked body to massage yours. See what I mean when I say it's about as close to sex as you'll get without actually having it?

What's the benefit of a Paris nude massage? Well, who doesn't want to see a beautiful nude woman standing in front of them, ready to knead and caress all your tension away? If you're in Paris for whatever reason, this is definitely something to look into. I couldn't believe it myself until I went there for the first time and had one. It isn't something I actively went looking for; I just stumbled upon it and called up for a session. These women know what they're doing.

If you're feeling a bit adventurous, you can have a "4 hands" session, with 2 nude masseuses working on you at the same time. It's a soothing and relaxing, yet sensual and erotic experience all in one. Of course you'll feel refreshed - that's sort of the goal of every massage - but the means to the end are very entertaining and exhilarating. A Paris nude massage is something to take advantage of if you have the chance. The women are hot, the massage is relaxing, and if you bring a lady friend with you, they'll work on both of you at once.
Pretty nice, huh?

Body-to-Body Massage In Amsterdam

2011-10-15T20:20:00.000+02:00

A few days ago I wrote that I was going to Amsterdam and was planning to treat myself with a fantastic erotic massage by my favourite girl Louise.

I met Louise 5 years ago when she was working for the Amsterdam section of Rent A Masseuse. The first treatment she gave me, made me hooked on her. Every time I went to Amsterdam I made sure I called in advance to the agency to assure myself of the services of this gorgeous woman with the most deliciously curved body I have ever seen. A body to die for. A body made for the mother of all erotic massages: Body-2-Body massage.

When Rent-A-Masseuse stopped its services in Amsterdam, Louise gave me her direct number, so that I could always call her. So the day before my arrival in Amsterdam, I phoned her.
She was happy to hear my voice, and so was I.
I asked if she could come to my hotel on Tuesday evening at 21.00. For a two hours body body massage.
I was lucky that she was available. So our date was set.

After a hard day work, I arrived back in my room and prepared myself for a good few hours of relaxation massage. I had a warm shower and made sure my to wash my whole body thoroughly. Including my most intimate parts and anus. Prostate massage I love and Louise is very, very good at touching me in the right spot.

I checked the ipod docking station to make sure it worked, as Louise always brings her ipod with the most stimulating tantric music. Listening to her music is a delicious treat in itself.
Anyways, I was ready to let go and unwind.

Exactly at 21.00 she knocked on my door. There she was, the most sexy and skilled masseuse from Amsterdam. This was going to be a great end of the day.

After the usual small talk,she put her ipod in the docking station so I could listen to her lovely music while she went to the bathroom to prepare herself.
I laid my self on the bed. On my belly. Waiting for the things to come.
After 10 minutes, she came back into the room. Wearing the most sexy and provocative lingerie I had ever seen. With a seductive smile on her face she came on the bed to sit down next to me and started to touch me gentle. Mmm...

To make a long story short, after two hours I was in a blissful state and felt totally rejuvenated. Thanks to the magical touch of the most beautiful and most sexy masseuse in Amsterdam, Louise. Expert in erotic tantric massage.

Thanks Louise, you are the best!

Interesting New Erotic Massage Blog

2011-10-12T14:28:00.001+02:00

Today I came across a new and very worthwhile reading blog about erotic tantric massage.

Usually these blogs are extra advertising for the massage provider, but in this case, the blog shows a lot of good stuff: very interesting and unique articles about erotic tantric massage.

Go and read this erotic massage blog yourself.
And let me know what you fee labout it.

Is Sensual Massage Better Than Sex?

2011-10-10T23:06:00.000+02:00

If you ask me, I would say 'Yes'; Way better. This may sound a little strange to you, but I will try to explain why and how I have come to this conclusion.

Sex is fascinating. I have been a pleasurefinder for almost 25 years. Have been there and done lots. From soft core hugging and kissing and a little petting to the very hard core pentration, double pentration, and the whole scope of extreme sexual acts. Including swinging, BDSM and bestiality. Great fun, lots of satisfaction and excitement.

I discovered the pleasures of sensual massage around the age of thirty. Throughout the years this was my thing to relax and recuperate form the hard work. And the more I had massages from girlfriends or professional sensual masseuses, the more I realised that the pleasure, the excitement and arousal goes so much deeper and lasts so much longer.

In the early years of me receiving a sensual massage as a healthy male you get the urge to instinctively use your tool. But the trick is to behave, to control oneself and to surrender. Tthe pleasure you receive in return is so much deeper!

Now I schedule a sensual massage in my weekly routine; together with my daily yoga and 5 workouts per week in the gym I feel more relaxed than ever before.

I can easily handle any amount of stress and yes, with the one I love I have regular sex; which is always fantastic for both of us. But the deepest and long lasting pleasure I get from a highly erotic, tantric massage done by my lover or my favourite masseuse in Amsterdam. It is a mindblowing experience every time again.

Yes I believe sensual massage is far better than the best sex!

Should you want to try yourself with your partner click here for the basics on doing a good sensual massage on your partner. Enjoy!

Prostate Massage In Amsterdam.

2011-10-10T22:11:00.001+02:00

Going to Amsterdam tomorrow; just for one day and a night. Quick meeting with a member of my team.

Have no plans for the evening, staying in an airport hotel, CitizenM. Never been there, but heard it was fantastic and very value for money.
So I give it a try.

Tonite I will give a call to my favourite Amsterdam masseuse, Louise. Hope she is around, as she does the best massages ever. And I surely need one.

Louise knows exactly how to touch my body and relax me. She is such a sexy, and above all, very sensual woman. She is an expert in prostate massage. I always book a two hours sessioin with her and at the end I am reborn, totally rejuvenated.

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Louise means Lust. I will bring a box of chocolate for her. As a token of my appreciation.

Rent A Masseuse - Never Duplicated

2011-10-08T01:14:00.000+02:00

Today cities like London and Paris have an abundance of providers of visiting erotic massage. However, in 2006 Rent A Masseuse created and introduced this concept of sensual massage by a professional nude masseuse in Paris and in London. It was soon imitated by others who also saw the potential of this niche in the market for adult relaxation.

Needless to say that I was one of the first customers to discover the ease and pleasures of a sexy nude masseuse coming to your hotel room!
As Gordon Gekko said 'Greed is Good', the competitors drove up the market for erotic massage. Competition creates demand. And as some of the competitors charged extreme high rates, the rate band for a one hour sensual massage treatment became quite stretched. Competition also stimulates any professional agency to provide maximum service and to maximize its efforts to gain marketshare.

Coming to the end of 2011, and looking back over the past 6 years, one can say that the niche market for adult relaxation has settled and is here to stay: London and Paris have a number of 'major' players; some of them not really major, but in any case very pretentious. Nothing wrong with that by the way.
My favourite Paris massage service Rent A Masseuse and my preferred London agency Carezzia hold a good piece of the market. They have always wonderful sexy girls and they strive to provide an excellent service. Thumbs up!

Having observed the market closely over the last year, I see that some competitors get nervous. I see websites appear that offer the same service under new names. The content is the same. They are really challenging google. As google hates duplicate content. They might loose their good rankings in google sooner or later.

It's funny to see that those competitors simply lack creativity. They duplicate themselves with new websites under different domain names. Some do not even take the effort to change the content that they copy from the market leaders. Usually 'trash cleans itself'. So one day the garbage man will come to clean the trash.

Like in any industry, there will always be trash and their will always be quality.
And at the end of the day, the customers are the judge and the jury. And they always let quality prevail.

Massage Oil - Hot and Greasy

2011-10-07T01:11:00.000+02:00

When you think of massage, you immediately think of oil. In sensual body massage, massage oil is a must. Causing a deeper and stimulating effect on the body, enhancing the sensual senses. Apart form this, massage oils have a subtle and delicious stimulating smell.

Personally I prefer rich quantities of greasy oil. Applied evenly over my body and re-applied a number of times during the massage treatment. Warm massage oil is for me the ultimate. The feeling that it brings is hard to describe, you just have to experience a sensual massage with oil and the same massage with warm oil. It is so much more pleasurable.

When your masseuse brings a bottle warmer and warms the oil on the spot, it’s like dining in a Michelin rated restaurant where the chef prepares your dish especially for you. Delicious. The massage I mean. Nothing beats warm massage oil.

Massage oil comes in many varieties, by various brands, from cheap through reasonably priced to simply expensive. As a customer you do not care, actually. But massage services or independent masseuses who aim at upscale customers will often use a premium brand, like Pjur Body Glide.

When it comes to massaging the more sensitive parts of the male (and female) body, usually these premium oils are not suitable for that area. Guys, I am talking here about your Lingam. Your part of the body where your family jewels are located. Your penis. As a healthy straight male, you know that your penis is best massaged with greasy, wet oil, in a rich quantity.

In order to obtain maximum relaxation, resulting in an explosion of stress relief, your masseuse has to massage your penis in a rhythmic movement, for a relatively long period of time. A good masseuse knows that the stimulating effect of the massage may fade, start to hurt even, if the oil has been absorbed by the skin. She therefore will re-apply her greasy oil a number of times. If she doesn’t, simply ask her to re-apply. It is after all, your massage and she wants you to have a happy ending.

I still remember the massages I had many, many years ago. Very good sensual massages, by wonderful masseuses in Paris and London. At that time, in the nineties, Nivea massage oil was very popular and commonly used. It came in 2 varieties: perfumed and non-perfumed. It was white, greasy and the smell, even of the non-perfumed oil, was simply fantastic. Hard to describe, kind of medical but with a very sensual and arousing touch.

The masseuses used Nivea oil all over your body, including the penis. Wherever she applied it, it felt fantastic: sensual, sexually arousing and stimulating. It made you relax to the max in an unprecedented way. Nowadays, Nivea oil is of a different substance. It still feels good, but not as good as it used to be. At least not for a sensual massage.

A very good oil, especially for the sensual body areas is Johnson’s baby gel. Greasy, with a subtle and sensual smell. In my personal sex life I often used it for my partner when I gave her a body-to-body massage. Yes that right mate, also men can do body-to-body massage. Body-to-body massage is often associated with a woman giving it to a man. But the other way around is also fantastic. Both for the giver and the receiver of the massage.

In a relationship me and my partner often gave each other sensual massage. Both completely naked of course. I usually started massaging my partner and along the way, we became more excited. And then the massage turned into a body-to-body massage.

I always applied lots of baby oil over my partner’s back, buttocks and shoulders. And then rubbing her with my upper chest and belly: From her legs to her neck and back. And of course, when you massage your partner with your body and your head is at the same height as her head… guess where your penis is… and man… that is a fan-tas-tic feeling…. and the more intense that feeling becomes, the hotter you and your partner get… so gradually the sensual massage becomes a sexual massage as you gently and teasingly slip in and out of her yoni.

Of course a professional masseuse of an upscale massage service does not do this with a customer. These very intimate moments are designed for your partner… whether a sex partner or your wife… it is special and you really become one. Exploding in a tsunami of sensuality and staying together for a long time…. wet from oil, sweat and bodily fluids. That is for me the most perfect sensual massage.

So next time you go the pharmacy, drug store or supermarket, don’t forget to take a bottle of Johnson’s baby oil.

Is Erotic Massage Legal In All Countries?

2011-09-30T23:23:00.000+02:00

In most of the United States, erotic massage is considered a form of prostitution, and is therefore illegal.

Massage as a practice in the US is heavily regulated by respective state boards, almost all of which prohibit any act deemed inappropriate for a therapeutic setting. For example, Section 29.1(b)(5) of the Regents regulations on massage practice in New York state prohibits "immoral conduct," which is defined as massage of genital areas and massage of a client who is not properly draped for massage, or by a massage therapist who is not properly dressed.

A licensed massage/bodywork therapist is, in fact, required by law to stop practicing the moment he or she suspects that the client would like something more than a good neck rub, shoulder work, etc.

While there are erotic massage services available, they advertise discreetly, and rarely mention the full extent of their services.

However, as these regulations are mandated on a State level, there is an exception. The state of Nevada allows (but seriously restricts) brothels, and thereby, some establishments there are known to offer erotic massage services. In addition to this, local newspapers will advertise the availability of escort services and sensual massage which, most likely, mean some sort of erotic contact. I

Also Canada, depending on province, allows certain forms of prostitution and erotic massage. One can find any number of massage parlors licensed or unlicensed in Canada. The unlicensed parlors, as they typically do not employ licensed therapists, offer specifically erotic massage.

Outside of the American continent, an array of erotic massage services, are legal to the point of being regulated industries. Amsterdam is famous for its red-light district, which includes not only coffee houses in which one can purchase and consume marijuana, but also legal prostitutes.

The Dutch government registers its sex-workers, allows them to join unions, and gives them access to social services. Indeed it goes so far as to require STD testing for the health of the workers and clients.

Although recent legislation has put a freeze on the development of any more red-light zones within the country, the sex-industry seems to be alive and well there. One would assume that something like a good old fashioned, and legal, erotic massage would be simple to procure there.

Among other nations, Japan, Thailand, and New Zealand stand out as havens for erotic massage. Because Japanese law is famously lax regarding prostitution, prohibiting only full on coitus, there is quite an array of erotic services available legally.

For instance, one can go to a soapland club, in which he or she (for a fee) is lathered in soap and serviced. The Japanese government actually regulates these and other (non-coital) sex services. New Zealand also openly allows a regulated sex-trade; wherein one can go to a massage parlour and receive any kind of massage service. Similar to the Dutch model, the country attempts to ensure the health and safety of their sex-workers, and ensures that full on prostitution only occurs in licensed brothels.

Of course there are plenty of nations in which erotic massage is highly illegal. Most notably, Chinese anti-prostitution laws have a zero tolerance approach to any kind of sex-work for money, mandating the death penalty for organizers of prostitution rings. Apparently, one will not find his happy ending in Beijing.

Author: Amy Nutt
Article Source: ArticlesBase.com - Is Erotic Massage Legal in all Countries?

Erotic Massage: Craigslist Or Google?

2011-09-30T13:43:00.000+02:00

I have been a net user since 1985. The years of noisy modems and slow dial-up connections. The internet was mockingly called the World Wide Waiting.

In 1995 somebody called Craig Newmark created a classifieds website for his hometown and simply named it Craig’s List, http://www.craigslist.org/.

Leonardo daVinci once wrote Simplicity is the ultimate in sophistication. Obviously this goes for Craig’s List, as this sober and very simple website, turned out a major global success.

Craigslist was quickly discovered by all kind of adult service providers, including masseuses offering erotic, sensual and tantric massages in any city where Craig had his List.

Looking for a sensual body massage? Go to a Craig’s List in cities like New York, Paris or London and find yourself overwhelmed by the abundance of erotic massage services. Males for females. Females for males, Males for males. Ever considered an erotic massage by a shemale masseuse? Craigslist is the place to find her. Or him!

While writing this article, I realize I never had a massage by a shemale – at least, that is what I believe…

The essence of sensual massage is that the masseuse usually starts working topless and turns fully nude during the massage. As I am very broad minded, would I mind if I was treated by a sexy masseuse who gradually undresses herself during the massage session and turns out to be a pre-op shemale?
Big surprise. Literally!

For the record, I consider myself 100% straight. I actually never thought of such a situation, but I do admit, the idea is quite exciting. So how will this work in practice?
I imagine myself lying on my belly, and enjoying a firm back rub and as I usually request an Indian head massage which I think is most sensual and extremely erotic. At a certain moment the masseuse has to position herself right in front of me. Sitting on her knees with her knees spread and my head in between so she can perform a perfect head massage. And then as she lifts your head. There it is! Right into your face. Point Blank. You get the picture! Right before your very eyes. And all of a sudden you realize the naughty meaning of the expression to give head.

I am known as being very broad minded, so I am not against getting a massage from a pre-op shemale as long as she is capable of doing a fantastic sensual body massage and applies lots of tantric elements to arouse every sense of my body. But perhaps I should enjoy my head massage at my hairdresser, where it is part of the hair wash ritual.

The gays say that it takes a man to satisfy a man. Interesting idea.
I wonder if any of my male readers has experience with this.

Anyways, this article is about Craigslist; not about sensual massage by shemales.
So for those searching for a sensual erotic massage in cities like London or Paris, Craigslist is the name of the game. But is that really so?

Out of personal and professional interest I checked the listings in the massage section on Craigslist. There is a lot of supply, with various texts like Sugar Sweet South American Blonde, 32, Moonlight Lady, 28, beautiful Oriental Thai – hot, hot, hot.

Your intelligence is not challenged here. You will instantly understand the type of services offered. Sex. Triple X. Prostitution of the first degree.

Mind you, I am not against prostitution. It is a big industry around the world and fulfills an important role in modern society. But for those of us who look for a proper sensual, erotic or tantric massage, look further.

Of course, if Lady Luck is with you, you occasionally might find a classified ad from somebody who claims to provide a proper body massage. But when you call, the telephone is often busy or unanswered.
To find a proper masseuse or massage service on Craigslist is hard work. And often a non satisfying experience.

On top of this, searching for erotic services on Craigslist can kill you! Literally. Read this article in The New York Times. As a result of this fatal event and other serious incidents, Craigslist USA have implemented stricter rules for classified ads in their erotic services section. But outside of the USA these rules seem not to have implemented yet.

Anyways, if I was to visit a major city like London or Paris I would not waste my time searching Craigslist for a masseuse for sensual, erotic or tantric massage. Instead I would simple Google for it and find proper massage services and agencies for erotic massage, by using popular keywords like; erotic massage London, Paris massage erotique, London sensual tantric massage, London massage agency, visiting massage London Paris, and so forth.

Adult massage London or nude massage Paris will also deliver what you are looking for: a sensual, erotic Tantra massage experience to make you totally relaxed.

Good and updated directories with listings and classified ads of adult massage providers in London are: The Adultguide to London and SaunaMassage.com.
And if somehow you do not find the leading agency for erotic massage in London in the top of your search results, simply click here and bookmark the site. They will caress your stress!

Happy Ending Makes Everybody Happy.

2011-09-28T13:01:00.000+02:00

Sensual massage can be a very happy, relaxing and satisfying experience. When one would have the chance to observe a customer leave a massage parlour, one would see the customer having a smile on his face; looking very happy!

One might think the customer has been watching a romantic movie with an ending of the plot where almost everything turned out for the best for the hero or heroine, but the observer, who knows what is going on in the massage industry, would immediately know this customer had a fantastic massage and has seen the stars beyond the universe.

The expression massage with a happy ending, or simply happy ending massage, is often used in Thailand and the USA as an euphemism for total sexual release. It simply means that in the final stage of the body massage, whether sensual, tantric or sometimes even therapeutic, when the male organ has become aroused and the male feels he needs release, the masseuse will offer him a happy ending.

Usually the masseuse expects a tip for this extra service, so she is also very happy to provide this extra service.

To put it discreetly, the masseuse asks her customer: ‘do you want a happy ending’ or she says ‘do you like me to finish in a special way’? And even those who never heard this lingo, immediately understand what the masseuse is talking about. She wants to make her client happy by giving him maximum pleasure by making him orgasm. Also called giving him full release or hand release.

Regardless of sexual preference, whether male or female, hetero sexual, bi-sexual or gay, an orgasm is a healthy and undeniable very pleasurable experience. Total release causes all nerves in your body to completely relax and reload. A relaxed customer is a happy customer.

By asking if the customer wants a happy ending, the masseuse will minimize the chance of conflict with the law; the customer might be an undercover law officer.

In many countries erotic massage (a massage where the genitals are touched in return for money) is considered to be illegal. Frequently law officers pose as customers to observe if masseuses violate the law. And if so, when the masseuse gets caught in the act, there is literally not a happy ending.

However, when the masseuse chooses her words carefully and informs discreetly about the customer’s preferences, she will stay within the law and escapes a bust.

But do you get really happy with a happy ending?
Unmistakeably yes. A skilled, friendly and sexy masseuse will massage your manhood in such a special way that you will explode like a tsunami in waves of pleasure and experience a sensational deep and lasting release.

Absolute happiness.

So, if your masseuse mentions a happy ending, she is not referring to a fantastic move that she saw recently… she is trying to make some extra money.
You will donate her a generous tip and in return will experience a sensational and climaxing finish of your massage. Everybody happy!

Regular Customers Get The Ultimate Massage

2011-09-26T12:01:00.000+02:00

When it comes to females in general, it seems to be the nature of the males, to constantly want to find somebody new. Somebody that is more beautiful, sexier, hotter, a better lover, a better sex partner. Somebody that gives more pleasure over his previous female partners or for a lover of sensual massage… his previous masseuse.

But, let’s face it guys. Is there anything beyond the ultimate pleasure?
Unless you think of dying during a super orgasm, I would not think so.
And even the pleasure of going to heaven is controversial!

Regarding erotic massage, when you have found a masseuse that you feel is beautiful, and does a superb sensual massage on you, exactly knowing your highly sensitive spots on your body and stimulating your mind, providing you maximum arousal, consider yourself very lucky.

In the erotic massage industry, the ones who are dedicated to their job an really enjoy massaging you and bringing you to sensual heights are a minority. So when you have found your dream masseuse, the one who knows exactly what she does and the way she does it, ultimately taking you into a state of total relaxation, stick to her. Become her regular customer. Allow yourself a massage regularly and find yourself being taken higher and higher.

If and when you think there is an even better masseuse out there, you will become very restless and start an almost impossible search. 99,9% chance that you will start wasting time and money in your search for hotter hands. Trust me guys, been there done it.
You will end up in a loop of frustration that will make you even more dedicated to find the perfect masseuse. An impossible quest.

Whether in Paris, London or anywhere around the globe, when you have found her, that masseuse who appears to be an expert in erotic and tantric massage, who takes you out of this world for an hour or two, be wise and do become her regular customer.

You will discover that as a regular, every time you visit her or in case of outcall massage, she will visit you, the massage sessions become better, more intense, the pleasure gets deeper. The whole experience gets more comfortable for both of you. Talk may get more personal and intimate.

Your masseuse will be challenged to get you into an even higher stage of relaxation. She will try more adventurous techniques, find more sensitive areas. Your happiness is her happiness.
So you get more of the new when you stick to the old.

Sensual and tantric massage is all about trust. Your masseuse will feel comfortable, flattered and honored with you as a regular customer. She is also a human being, and when you both treat each other with respect, you will build a kind of relationship of which you both will benefit in many ways.

Your masseuse will have less stress from dealing with a new customer and will therefore be more at ease working on your body and mind. That results in a higher level of arousal, sometimes also for your masseuse, which might result in an even higher sensual experience. Need I say more?!

So my fellow male lovers of erotic and/or tantric massage think of this. Do I talk nonsense here?! If you are honest to yourself, you will admit that I am very right.
So try to control that male hormone called testosterone and be loyal to your masseuse. In return, she will be loyal to you and your massage experience will only become better. You will find your ultimate pleasure.

Interesting Ways Of Adult Marketing

2011-08-31T23:51:00.000+02:00

What is the secret of successfully marketing an adult business? In principal, there is no such a secret. All it takes is courage and the drive to take the extra mile. As well as the guts to take a bit more risk that your competitors. Like in any other busines often it pays off to have an original approach or an innovative idea.
Carezzia has produced a fantastic glossy video commercial, which was even refused on youtube because of being ‘sexually provocative’. Can you imagine?! Just type ‘sex’ on youtube and you get an abundance of sleazy stuff, often hardcore and this sensual massage video for Carezzia is categorized ‘sexually provocative’.

However, this video commercial, displayed in stream on the Carezzia website is an original approach and takes marketing of the massage service to an unprecedented level. Carezzia was not the first one with video on its website. An other London massage service was the very first one and they did a good job. But at that time, end of 2008, the average connection speed for web users was not fast enough for high quality video to get optimum results.

This post is about marketing secrets in the adult business.
A man who has become legendary for its marketing approach is the Dutch man Theo Heuft, founder of the world famous and most exclusive nightclub in the world: YabYum Amsterdam.

A very interesting example of innovation, creativity and the ‘if you can’t beat them, join them’ principle is the following. As you may all know Amsterdam was very liberal in the last century, but still publishers were very cautious in allowing adult business in their publications. So when Theo wanted to advertise his exclusive venue in a few glossy and exclusive inflight magazines and business publications the publishers refused. Because of the product – no matter how clever, classy, glossy and subtle his ads for his YabYum were, it was still considered a brothel. Extremely exclusive, extremely expensive and stylish, but still a brothel.

So, when the publishers of these business magazines and newspapers refused his advertisement campaign, he had to re-think his marketing. As champagne was served in abundance in his nightclub (at exuberant prices!) and the name YabYum was widely branded in previous years, he created his own brand name for champagne with the YabYum Logo on the bottle: YabYum Champagne.
He made a deal with the famous champagne brand Taittinger in France and they labeled exclusively for YabYum bottles with the YabYum logo on it.

Then, instead of advertising for his nightclub, he launched an advertising campaign for champagne: YabYum Champagne. Such an advertisement could of course not be refused. How clever is that?!

It was a great success and put his venue on the map for good. YabYum became a main stay on the scene. Upscale business people and celebs from all over the globe visited YabYum during their stay in Amsterdam. Many of them diverted their private jets for a stop over in YabYum. And not only for the champagne…

Early 2000 Theo sold his business. Though the new owner was dedicated to continue the club, it never matched the stylish finesse and subtle touch of the previous owner. 2004 new legislation for running clubs like YabYum came into effect, and after a difficult period in unsuccessfully trying to comply with the law, YabYum had to close down. Now it is for sale.

My First Tantric Massage Experience.

2011-08-31T00:14:00.000+02:00

As you may know, my interest for sensual and tantric massage goes a long way back. I have always been fascinated by the sensual atmosphere of a massage studio, the massage table, the incenses, the calming and relaxing music and the sexy masseuse.

In my opinion there is nothing more erotic than a very attractive female masseuse, high heeled, dressed in a white dress or sarong, wearing a G-string and a friendly and sexy smile on her face. Telling you to get undressed and lie on the table; face down. Waiting for things to come.

When I was around 28, I already had had a number of relaxing, sensual experiences. Erotic. Sensational. Delicious. And very relaxing!

One day I discovered in the national newspaper a classified ad of a tantric masseuse.
She offered a personal and mind blowing experience. Without sex. Especially the without sex made it very intrigueing.

So I made the call and asked the lady who answered the phone for details.
She told me she worked alone in her apartment. That she was a professional masseuse, specialised in Tantra.

As I did not know anything about Tantra at that time, I asked her to explain. What I could expect.
She explained that I would be fully nude and that she would be fully dressed; which was a bit dissapointing. But the fact that I would be naked and she working on my body in a tantric way looked very promising.

She explained that she had her own style of Tantra and it was easier to experience myself than to understand over the phone. The fact that she sounded convincing, charming and sensual, and that her location was only 20 minutes by car from my place made me decide to make an appointment.
To try and find out.

To make a long story short, the masseuse looked very pretty, the apartment was very nice, her well equipped massage room had an unmistakingly sensual and mystique atmosphere. Incenses that aroused me the moment I walked in.

The first part of the massage was quite relaxing but then when she applied her Tantra on me, that was something else than the usual sensual massage.
While she was gently stroking my erogenic zones and sensitive parts, she used her voice to massage my mind. I had to breath deeply. And intense.

First through my mouth. Then through my nose. And then, I had to breath in through my anus. I had to take in her sensual energy through my rectum. I have to admit, she had a very sexual aura and her voice and breathing commands were indeed arousing me sexually. But when she told me to start breahting in colours, well I just did not see it.

The colour thing, which was actually the finishing touch of the massage, was just too much. A kind of anti-climax. Okay, I admit I felt relaxed, but still very tensed as she had not make me orgasm. You could say it was an interesting experience. Sensual and erotic to a certain degree. But definitely not my kind of Tantra.

So my first Tantra experience was an interesting one, but sensually not a great one.

In later years I discovered that Tantra and tantric massage comes in a wide variety. And yes, Tantra and Tantric massage can absolutely be very sensual and extremely erotic. And with the right masseuse it will be a mind blowing experience. More about Tantra later.

Meanwhile, should you ever go to New York, pay a visit to White Lotus East, you might discover heaven on earth!

Sensual Massage And Stress Release

2011-07-14T23:00:00.000+02:00

A large group of medical specialists believes that an orgasm is the best way to relax from stress. Usually doctor's advice is not pleasurable, so this is fantastic news.

Sensual massage is another way to completely relax from all of your stress. Sensual masage is best described as a proper body massage where erogenic zones are stimulated to provoke a continuous flow of sexual energy throughout the body. Ultimately leading to an intense orgasm and intense feeling of total relaxation.
When the massage is done properly this sensational feeling will last for days, giving you lots of energy and zest for life. As a consequence your life becomes more light, bright and productive.

Even the NHS in the UK promotes orgasms on a daily basis, though the recommended method (humping and bonking) described in this article is is so 'vulgar', but still, read it and understand that 'it' is a must.

If you have a partner, try to discuss with him or her giving each other a sensual massage weekly. If necesarry, first follow a course in order to learn the proper techniques or order a couple of dvd's on the internet to learn the basics and then practice, practice, practice. It will bring so much fun in your relation ship.

For those who are not in a relationship, or whose partner is not into sensual activities or otherwise, I recommend to seek an address of a masseuse or masseur in your neighbourhoud to go there regularly.
You will surely enjoy it.

And guys, if you have a female partner, please keep her happy... as a woman needs a regular clitoral orgasm to stay healthy. Please do read this interesting article I found on the net and you will make your woman live longer. And happy.

Erotic Massage And Prostitution

2011-07-14T13:10:00.000+02:00

Wikipedia says: Erotic massage or sensuous massage is the use of massage techniques to achieve or enhance sexual arousal.

Massages have been used for medical purposes for a very long time. Its use for erotic purposes also has a long history. Today it is used by some couples on occasions as part of lovemaking, either as foreplay or as the final sex act. Erotic massages typically feature massages in erogenous zones of the body to increase sexual arousal.

Wikipedia also says: Erotic massage may be utilized as a sex therapy, that is, as a means of stimulating the libido, or increasing the ability of a person to respond positively to sensual stimulus. In some cases, erotic massage can be a form of foreplay without sexual gratification, intended to heighten the sensitivity of an individual prior to another engagement where sexual arousal and fulfillment is intended.

In other cases, erotic massage may be used professionally to help men address issues of premature ejaculation. Methods employed may teach the recipient to relax the musculature of his pelvis and thus prolong arousal and increase pleasure.

I personally believe erotic or sensual massage is certainly not prostitution. But I do fully concur with wikipdia in their assessment of what gives erotic massage and its providers a bad name and often leads people to conclude that erotic massage is prostitution:

Massages which are sometimes described as erotic massages are in fact sexual massages. These may be provided by establishments which call themselves massage parlors, but in fact provide sex services. In such cases, it typically takes the form of a massage whose purpose is the achievement of an orgasm, through masturbation, oral sex, or sexual intercourse.

According to my observations there is a large number of people, mainly males, who appreciate erotic and sensual massage above sex. And as I have had many sensual and erotic massages myself, I fully agree.
Nothing beats a sensual and erotic massage. It is so relaxing and releases you from all of your stress.
It's pure bliss.

Massage For Couples - Ladies First!

2011-03-01T15:35:00.000+01:00

The power of a sensual massage is underestimated.

Assuming you have an open relationship with your friends and relatives so you can discuss personal activities, bring up the subject. Ask if they ever practice sensual massage together. Most likely a large percentage will deny, simply because they either do not know how to massage, or do not allow themselves the time for a mutual massage. Unfortunately.

Practicing sensual massage in a relationship usually does not get the importance it deserves. Often couples dive right into the sex act. Ignoring any time or attention to foreplay and preparation. And this is really sad as 'Getting in the mood' is essential to providing a positive foundation for any sexual experience.

Those who have discovered the art of sensual massage know what I am talking about. They simply have a better relationship with better sex. Or often no intercourse at all! As an extensive sensual massage can be so mood enhancing and relaxing, and above all intimate, that it overrides the feelings of penetrative sex.

Now you might think that you need to do a course to become a skilled masseur or masseuse. Of course training would not do any harm, but is not needed at all. In this article I will provide some basic tips, and then you can start practicing. On your partner. Having fun. If you both have a passion for touching each other, you will find yourself getting more intimate and connected than ever before. Sensual massage is just so much more than touching the erotic parts of a body.

Time and timing are of the essence. Reserve some time for a long bath or shower together, taking turns washing each other without sexual activity. Just touch, explore and indulge each other. Use soft, clean fluffy towels and dry each other's bodies slowly and gently.

Move on to the bedroom and light candles and play soft, relaxing music. Bring out the massage oils and place a large towel on the bed to absorb any oil drips and to make a comfortable place for your partner to receive the massage. Use plenty of pillows to support the head so you can look into each other's eyes during the massage and watch.

Use oil in abundance to make the skin soft and supple as you massage. The friction mixed with the oils will warm the flesh and make for an extremely pleasurable sensation.

Begin the massage on the upper body indulging the neck, shoulders and lower back. Don't forget to include the arms, hands and fingers. Take your time with each other. Explore and get to know one another completely. Continue on to the hips, buttocks and thighs working your fingers now and again very close to erogenous zones without actually indulging. Touch and go. This is so much more arousing and stimulating.
Eventually you and your partner will become very excited and develop an urge to completely let go. Give in. Let go. Indulge into that sensational erotic feeling and make your partner go to heaven. Allowing him or her to completely let go, Showing you his or her ultimate trust; the orgasm.

My fellow males, please note. I do recommend that you start the massage first, pleasing your female partner. As we all know, when a male orgasms he will loose a lot of energy.
In order to avoid your female partner not getting what she so much will enjoy, it’s Ladies First.

Visiting sensual massage services do receive frequently requests from couples who would like to have a massage by one of their masseuses. Apart from the fact that the couple will enhance their massage skills by observing talented masseuses, the couple will also become more intimate with each other as these masseuse will both massage him and her. Eventually taking both partners simultaneously to a climax they have never experienced before. The moment partners simultaneously reach their state of total relaxation is very emotional and very intimate. It will bring partners more closer than ever before.

So to improve your relationship or keep it healthy, allow you and your partner a sensual massage minimum one time per week. You will feel so much more connected.

Massage. Nothing More?

2011-03-01T15:32:00.003+01:00

In this article I like to address a question that often comes to mind. Do the masseuses really do massage only? It seems hard to believe that when a fully nude masseuse works on a fully nude customer, nothing else does happen. I will try to explain that indeed nothing else happens.

I do admit, as an outsider you would assume that when 2 naked bodies are involved in a sensual massage, the sexual act is only a natural step.
The thing is, people who call an agency for sensual erotic massage do actually need a proper body massage. The fact that there is nudity and erogenous zones are stimulated, is just something natural. It is part of the massage treatment in order to reach total relaxation.

When customers deal with a respectable agency that provides sensual massage only, there is a two-way action. Non serious customers, i.e. those who expect more or think that massage is a cover for prostitution are usually filtered out by the operators.
Serious customers whose primary objective is to have a proper body massage for total relaxation are welcomed and booked.

Another point, which is often ignored, is that masseuses who seek employment by an agency for sensual massage, are not willing to provide other services than the sensual massage. They do not consider themselves escorts or prostitutes.

Thus the agency brings together only serious sensual massage minded people. And if something more does happen – as a rare exception to the principals of the customer and the masseuse – it is just a choice of two consenting adults who feel like letting go.
These things do happen. Everywhere. From those who are lovin'it to the White House, in any case in the days of naughty Bill...
We are all human and sometimes we like someone so much, that we forget about principles and policies. C’est la vie.

Non Penetrative Sex

2011-03-01T15:30:00.000+01:00

While browsing the web for a topic related to erotic massage I found this article on wikipedia about non-penetrative sex. And as this blog is all about erotic massage, I was pleasantly surprised by this fantastic description of non-penetrative sex:
Non-penetrative sex (also known as outercourse, dry sex, and dry humping) is sexual activity without vaginal, anal, or oral penetration, as opposed to intercourse, anal sex, or oral sex (which may or may not be penetrative).

The terms mutual masturbation and frottage are also used, but with slightly different emphases. NPS and outercourse are rather new terms, which is why such practices are sometimes still called "intercourse". The term "outercourse" is something of a misnomer, as it contrasts "outer" with "inter" but the "inter" in "intercourse" means "between two people". It does not describe being inside or outside of the body.

It is less likely that bodily fluids will be exchanged, and so outercourse is often considered a practice of safer sex, as well as of birth control. Outercourse in preparation for intercourse can form part of foreplay.

Go and read the full article on wikipedia. It's absolutely worthwhile and will broaden your views on erotic massage and sensual pleasure in general.

Happy reading for a happier ending!

Maximise Your Orgasmic Potential

2011-03-01T15:29:00.000+01:00

Tantra massage is a sensuous, healing massage with its origins in ancient India. Using the healing power of touch, Tantric erotic massage engages all of the body’s senses in bringing two people together. A gathering together of the senses, the Tantra massage can bring new meaning and to a couple’s relationship. The focus on sexual completion is abandoned and instead the couple takes a journey into relaxation, openness and learning to receive as well as give.

In the Tantra philosophy, sexual energy is viewed as the life force. Every part of the body is touched in an erotic massage allowing all of life’s hurts and pains to be dissipated and drawn forth from where it has been trapped within the flesh. Removing the negative energy through massage allows the body to relax and absorb the positive aspects of touch and communication.

Tantra massage heals the body and can help a couple overcome sexual problems and intimacy issues. The massage can culminate in orgasm but it is not the goal. It can help a non-orgasmic woman to orgasm or a man with erection difficulties or pre-mature ejaculation to find freedom from these problems. If there is a medical basis to a problem it should be addressed but if it is emotional Tantra massage can provide the answer.

Our emotions and painful experiences have a powerful effect on our ability to interact with our loved ones. Tantra massage can make us more whole. Even one Tantric massage can change us and our relationships and help us to become more accepting of our bodies and of each other.

Tantric massage should always take place in the proper environment with the proper setting. The room should be softly lit and a comfortable temperature. Time is extremely important. There should be no sense of urgency or rushing. Allow 90 to 120 minutes for the complete process. Use oils to lubricate the skin and always use a delicate touch.

There are many massage techniques that can easily be learned. When you are the giver it is essential to remain relaxed and to help your partner relax and enjoy the experience of being the receiver. Keep eye contact through the process and watch the receiver for clues to his/her enjoyment. The giver can stay in control but monitor the massage according to the receiver’s level of comfort and pleasure.

Learning Tantra massage techniques will enrich your own personal experience with intimacy as well as your partners.

Article courtesy of Maya Silverman, co-author of the Erotic Massage Guide.

The Erotic Massage Guide explores the world of erotic massage, sensual massage and tantra massage for physical pleasure, emotional fulfillment and spiritual bliss.
Maya is also a keen advocate of the use of sensual and tantric massage in dealing with sexual problems and issues in physical and emotional intimacy.

Special Massages

2011-03-01T15:28:00.000+01:00

This article is dedicated to the practice of Prostate Massage for men and G-Spot Massage for women. Due to a recent decision by the US Supreme Court( June 2003), The practice of prostate/G-Spot massage is now considered an action by 2 consenting adults in a private setting. Previous VA Code § 18.2-361 is no longer valid.

Much is written about the use of prostate massage in the medical field, as therapy or prevention for prostate problems. The medical community sees this service as part of wellness care, as well as stress management for men.

My research into the female counterpart, the Grafenberg Spot massage, indicates mostly references to Tantric massage, or Tantric Yoga, the use of this technique seems to be mostly for pleasure.
I will do my best to give information useful to everybody, without being graphic or offensive.

Prostate Massage
Many men do get great pleasure from having this area stimulated; often to the point of explosive orgasm. On the other hand, some men find it very uncomfortable to be touched in this area. They may have had unpleasant experiences with prostate exams at a doctor's office. But for many men, in a romantic context with the right partner, the experience is great.

You can massage your partner's prostate directly or indirectly. The most effective method is to massage it directly, which means inserting your fingers into his body. Lubricate one or two fingers, and as your partner relaxes, insert them gently into his anus. Go very slowly, and let him decide how fast and how deep you go. Once your fingers are inside, curl them forward towards his penis, and make a "come hither" motion against an object that you will feel pressing against the rectum. Ask him how it feels. If it's not feeling good, stop and move on to something else.

A word of warning, though. If your fingernails are not closely trimmed, wear a latex glove and be doubly slow and careful as you enter. If you're careless, an unprotected fingernail might cause a small cut in the tissues inside the anus. While such cuts are rarely dangerous, they can sting for a day or two.

You can buy latex gloves; the thin, transparent kind often used by health workers available inexpensively at most drug stores.

With the indirect method, all touching takes place outside the body. This gives a less intense sensation, but some men prefer it. If you press up behind your partner's testicles (toward the anus) you'll notice that the penis actually extends a couple of inches inside the body. It's above this inner part of the penis that the prostate resides. During your next sexual encounter, press up here and move the penis around slightly to stimulate the prostate.

Or you can press up in the area between the genitals and the anus; the perineum. Both methods lead to external stimulation of the prostate.

Whichever technique you use, keep communicating with your partner. Some men can have an orgasm from prostate massage alone, while others like additional direct genital stimulation. You may find that prostate massage is not all that you and he had hoped it would be. Luckily, there are about a hundred other places on a man's body for you to explore.

G-Spot Massage
The woman's G-spot can be accessed lying down, knees high, middle and ring fingers curled inside or more easily with a small, sanitary, phallic shaped object, or with your beloved's Lingam inside, pointing up behind the pubic bone. A sudden urge to urinate is a clear sign the G-spot has been accessed. It is, of course, best to urinate before this practice, so that you can relax into the feelings. Unlike the clitoris, very firm pressure is needed for stimulation. With a short but full deep outward stroke over the fleshy area in behind the pubic bone, the G-spot will begin to swell. Firm side to side and circular motions can also be applied. After the sensation to urinate passes, either pleasurable or possibly painful feelings will follow both emotionally and physically.

A woman's G-spot is a direct access to the second Chakra, and stimulation of this area can touch old emotional wounds that have not been completely processed through and released. This is why it is important to proceed slowly, being sensitive to subtle signals your body and emotions may be giving you.

During G-spot massage, place the other hand lightly on your heart Chakra, creating a polarity to channel the energy being aroused in the second Chakra up to your heart center for emotional release. Tears may overcome you from either pleasure or pain. If there is physical pain, back off. Be very light and gentle with yourself. If you feel like screaming to release old blocks, do so. Go with whatever is right for you in the moment.

As emotional cleansing takes place, be it in one session, or over a period of time, your pleasure will intensify to some of the sweetest pleasure known to women. As your energy rises to your heart center, and emotional release emerges, keep allowing the energy to flow up into your throat Chakra through breath and sound, and into your head up through your crown like a whale showering water over its self. Allow the Kundalini release to be complete, from root to crown and beyond. Your body may begin to vibrate and tingle, and joy and a feeling of effulgence may embrace your soul.

Rejoice in the pleasure of the new opening of energy flow bringing you more and more into harmony with who you were meant to be as a spiritual entity in a physical body.

As you are ready, insert the middle or ring finger(s), reach deep and curl the fingers around behind the pubic bone, pressing and rubbing very firmly into the vaginal wall. It may feel like you are trying to touch the back of the clitoris. When you feel the urge to urinate, you know you have found the spot.

This feeling will pass. You may wish to use an object to stimulate the G-spot at this point as fingers grow tired, and it is difficult to reach with your own fingers.

Key things to remember are breath awareness, firm pressure and opposite hand on the heart center or other Chakras making a polarity channel up.

Do not rush; let it happen. Inhale deeply at the point of rapture, and stretch the exhale out to make the throbbing all consuming as though to swallow you whole. See if you can relax enough to let the Amrita flow. Do not push yourself; it will happen in time. Relax, let go of inhibitions, and enjoy your time spent in a self-loving G-spot massage.

Closing Remarks
As you can see, it takes time and practice to really enjoy these techniques. A loving relationship between partners, or a relationship of openness and trust between provider and recipient are the cornerstones that make these experiences pleasurable.

If you are new to these concepts, be patient, communicate with your partner.

My favorite saying is "Perfect Practice makes Perfect!", so, practice often, and have fun! Enjoy each other's company!

This article is written by Gem in Richmond, Virginia. Gem is a serious dedicated and passionate massage provider in the USA. Visit her website to know more about Gem and her services.

Funny Massage Video

2010-11-18T00:16:00.003+01:00

Yoga or Sex?

2010-11-15T22:40:00.002+01:00

My ex lady friend Annabelle has never forgiven me that I once said to her that I felt that Yoga was better than sex. She took it so personal. Actually, sex with Annabelle was always fantastic. A bit kinky and tender at the same time. My preferred way of penetrative sex.

If women are sensitive, Annabelle is overly sensitive. I could have known... But all I wanted to express was that Yoga is such a fantastic way to excercise and to relax. That I get the same euphoria from Yoga as from sex.

Hey guys, I am not a pussy. I am not talking soft yoga with lots of meditation and lots of singing. No way sir. I am talking Ashtanga Yoga. STING does it every day. And Madonna. Look at their bodies. Look into their eyes... don't they look as if they are in an orgasmic state?!

Not so long ago I was at my regular hairdresser Jimmy H, who does all the glamorous and sexy ladies in the area. Ladies who are married, but according to Jimmy, mostly unhappy. Anyways, they may be unhappy but are happy shoppers in expensive houses and expensive cars. With lots of leisure time. So, you see them regularly in the usual 'in' restaurants, in the local gyms and the local spa's.

Quite a few I meet regularly in my yoga classes. So Jimmy and me had the usual conversation. About business, women, and the latest gossip. At a certain moment he lowered his voice, as there were many customers in his salon: "I must make you a compliment Eric. Many ladies talk about you. That you are so good at Yoga. So flexible". I smiled. Everyone loves to get a compliment. Certainly me.

I said to Jimmy, in a joking way "Give them my number. I am ready for the Kama Sutra!".
Up to now I have not had any call of desperate housewives... but still hoping. LOL

Anyways, Ashatang Yoga is a continuous flow of excercise and breathing... setting your body on heat... very intense... sweating to the max. I would say a serious hour of Yoga is just as intense as an hour of kick box training or running cross country.
At the end of every Yoga class there is always 15 minutes of relaxation. Totally fading away. No thoughts. No stress. Away from this world. When you 'wake up', coming back into the world of being... you feel fantastic. Totally relaxed. Reborn. Ready for anything!

I discovered Yoga more than three years ago. Shortly after my divorce. I was dating a woman from Sweden. Brit. And she was so enthousiastic. And so flexible. After sex she used to stay on her head for 10 minutes. Totally naked. To recuperate. And then we had more sex!

Brit persuaded me to come with her. To try. As she said "Eric, you have the perfect body for Yoga". Well, to cut a long story short. I was hooked from day one and since then practice Yoga on avaerage 5 sessions per week. And I love it. My body has become extremely flexible, muscular and lean. I am almost 52 and in top shape. In body and mind. I can handle much more stress than ever before. And when women tell me how flexible I am... I smile and say "Thanks. I am ready for the Kama Sutra.".
Namaste.